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Dating Message Red Flag Checker

Paste a message and get a structured review of warning signs, safer next steps and questions to ask before sending money or personal information.

Do not paste passwords, financial account details, private addresses or other sensitive information. Remove names and contact details first.
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What this checker can and cannot tell you

The tool identifies common patterns such as requests for money, urgent pressure, attempts to move communication off-platform immediately, inconsistent stories or requests for sensitive information. A red flag is not proof that someone is a scammer, and a clean result is not proof that a person is genuine.

Safety rule: never send money, gift cards, banking credentials or identity documents to someone you have only met online. Keep conversations on the dating service until trust is established.